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憑酒結情緣 胡軍自述與張國榮、梅豔芳的深厚友誼(紅。張國榮)

Wu Jun himself talked about his deep relationship withLeslie Cheung and Anita Mui   (source:  website of Gor Gor's fans at 163 net)


自從電影在香港獲得了金紫荊獎之後，胡軍就和香港結下了不解之緣。商業、物質的香港演藝圈這次非常痛快地接受了這個一身霸氣的北京男人，也接受了他的豪爽和熱情。更加有意思的是，他成了很多香港女明星的好朋友。幾次攜美女在內地星光大道上高調亮相，也幾次照亮了觀眾的眼睛。

Since Wu Jun got Gold Bohemia in HK, he started to have a close relation with HK.  HK entertainment circle accepts him, a man from Beijing, and he becomes good friend of many HK female movie stars.  For several occasions,  he walked arm in arm with beautiful girls at the star walk in mainland China in high profile.

胡軍：可能我碰上的都是好人吧，碰上的都不是特事兒的人，而且他們都特別喜歡演戲的人，也不願意說自己是明星而說是演員。

Wu Jun:  maybe all people I meet are good people, also all of them like acting, they don't like to call themselves as movie stars, but actors.

胡軍好酒，當年曾喝火了京城無數酒吧。用他自己的話說，不是一個人兩個人喝，而是一群人在一起，以一種完全放鬆的狀態飲酒，一個星期裏有五天半在酒吧裏泡著。而胡軍與張國榮第一次交往便是從酒開始的。哥哥離世一年，胡軍首次細說他與哥哥相識一年裏的深厚交情。

Wu Jun likes drinking, he had visited all bars in Beijing.  He used to say, not one person or two persons drink, but a group, drinking in a relaxed mood.  5-1/2 days out of the week drink in the bar.  Wu Jun got to know Leslie Cheung due to wine too.  Gor Gor passed away already for a one year, this is the first time he talked about his close relation with Gor Gor.

(won't translate the  follow paragraphs as they are about his relation with Gor Gor:  But go further down, that is about Anita Mui)
胡軍：那時候我們在香港宣傳，國榮哥特意過來陪著我們去宣傳。當時他拿著紅酒對我說‘胡軍，你知道我已經很長時間不喝酒了，但是為了你這部電影，我陪你喝一杯！’就這麼開始交往的。我記得在去參加金馬獎典禮的時候，他就告誡我說不要太在意這個東西，不管拿與不拿你都是贏家。那時他跟我說了很多，特別是我沒拿到獎以後，他說胡軍你要看明白一些事情。我們聊得很知心，我非常非常的感謝他。

張國榮自己導演一部電影的遺願眾所周知，卻很少有人知道，這部電影敲定的男主角之一，就是和哥哥僅有一年交情的胡軍。對於沒能出演這部電影，胡軍也有同樣的遺憾。

胡軍：他當時想自己導一部戲，自導自演，他說要拉著我一塊兒，跟他做搭檔。有關角色的問題，他對我說‘你放心好了，我不會讓你為了我而當一個大配角的，我會把咱們的戲拉得很平均的。’那時演員只選定了我一個，他說一定要與我合作這部戲。我說國榮哥我等著你，結果沒等著，這是我挺大的一個遺憾。就在香港電影金像獎頒獎之前，我們倆曾經通過最後一次電話。他說他身體不大好，我勸他一定要注意身體！

因那部電影的擱淺他還向我賠禮道歉‘真對不起，讓你那麼上心’那時候我真的很重視那部電影。他最後走了，那天正好是愚人節，當時我們正在蘇州拍《畫魂》，誰都不敢相信，當時一個朋友給我打電話說國榮哥走了，我還罵人家呢。後來香港的幾個朋友接二連三地給我來電話，我說不可能，你們開同一個玩笑對不對？說完後我馬上就給另一個香港朋友打電話，他說確實是真事，當時我就蒙了，人都木了。當時那場戲就沒法繼續再拍，阿關（關錦鵬）哭得不行了，直接就收工了。


從2002年香港電影金像獎典禮上相識開始，雖然胡軍在香港的時間不多，通過和梅艷芳經常的電話問候，以及每次去香港聚會喝酒，他們兩人在這短短的一年多時間內建立了深厚的友情，如今，胡軍回憶起梅艷芳離世之前的每一個細節，一切都還清晰無比。

金像獎上結識阿梅

Got to know Ah Mui at HK Film Award Academy

金像獎典禮上阿梅曾看著我說，你這電影演的不容易，我知道你不是，但是你真的不容易。我說謝謝，謝謝。後來大家就一塊兒去吃慶功宴，又去酒吧聚會，在那兒和她聊了起來，就這麼認識了。阿梅性格豪爽，太豪爽了，我們在一起喝酒，其實她喝不了多少，但她膽子大，能喝，敢喝，給我的印象也不光是豪爽，我更能感覺到她的女人味十足。（胡軍自述）

At the Academy Ceremony Ah Mui looked at me and said, it is not an easy role in this movie, I know you are not (Ah Mui meant Wu Jun is not gay),  so really not easy for you.  I said thank you, thank you.  Then we went together to the celebration dinner, and then the bar.  At the bar, we started to talk, and got to know each other.  Ah Mui is very open and carefree, really too open and carefree.  When we drank together, actually she didn't drink too much, but she was very brave, she could drink and dared drink.  The impression she gave me was not only open and carefree, I could feel her strong feminine aroma.

親赴阿梅的生日會

Attended her birthday party

認識了有一段時間以後，她和我說她得病了，但我知道她一直在堅持工作，就勸她要好好休息，那時候她卻說，反正已然這樣了，只有工作能夠讓她暫時的忘掉一些東西。在她過最後一個生日的時候，我是在她生日的頭一天去的她家為她慶賀。因為我知道第二天她要組辦一個很大的聚會，之前還邀請我希望我一定到場，我一想當天會有那麼多人，就說提前在頭天晚上去吧。那晚剛好她身邊的幾個朋友也都提前祝賀她生日，大家一直陪她過了午夜十二點。實際上那時候，阿梅的身體狀況已經很不好了，但是我真的沒有想到，她走得那麼快。（胡軍自述）

After I had known her for a period, she told me she was sick.  But I knew she still insisted to work.  I told her to take a good rest.  She told me at that time, anyway nothing could be changed, only working could help her to forget all the things temporarily.  During her last birthday,   I went to her home to celebrate  with her on the first day (he meant Oct 9)  because I knew on the next day there would be a large gathering.  She invited me wishing I be there.  I thought there would be too many people on that day, so went the day before at night.  It happened there were a few friends who went to celebrate her birthday that night too.  We stayed with her till mid night.  Actually at that time, Ah Mui's physical condition was not good already, but I never thought, she would have left that soon.

後悔沒看第二場演唱會

Regret for not seeing the second show of the concert

阿梅病危的那天晚上，我是一直等，等消息，一直到她走。那晚我整夜都沒睡，感覺她就像在我面前一樣，雖然我們交往的時間不算很長，但是確實可以算是很知心的朋友，無話不談的朋友。她開演唱會前說胡軍你來吧，來看我的演唱會，我的首場演出，希望你能夠到。我說好。我一聽她那樣說，感覺她身體可能真的已經不行了。我問她還能頂得住嗎，她說沒問題，然後我就去了，去看了首場。現在我一直後悔的一件事情是我看完首場以後，因第二天要馬上回來拍戲而沒有繼續看她第二場演出！首場時我去後臺看她，她的助理說阿梅已在休息，我就對那位助理說你千萬別告訴她我們來後臺了，我們直接就到台下看去了。阿梅演出完以後，我們沒再去後臺，因為人太多了，她許多朋友都圍著她，跟她說這說那，我就想，我們先走吧。結果我們還沒完全離開那個場地的時候，阿梅就給我打電話說胡軍你來了嗎，我說我來了。她說怎麼沒看到啊，那時我逗她開心，說你得了吧，你在舞臺上騷首弄姿的怎麼能夠看到我坐在哪兒。她說不對啊，我把你們的位置全都是留好了，我還在台上找你們呢。我說可能是燈光暗的原因吧。她就說胡軍那你明天再來好嗎，因為她每場演出都是不一樣的。我說好，但卻因第二天的工
作而沒能再見她一面，所以說看她的那場首演等於是我見到她的最後一面。後來我才明白阿梅為什麼要舉辦這個演唱會，她是在告別，在告別她所有愛她的人還有她所愛的人、她身邊的朋友甚至家人，那絕對是一種告別。（胡軍自述）

On the night when Ah Mui was lingering in her death bed, I was waiting all night for news, till she left.  That night, I could not sleep, just felt she was just in front of me.  Though we didn't know each other for too long, we could be regarded as good friends, we could talk our hearts, and talk about anything.  Before she started the concert, she told me to go to see her concert:  For my first show, I hope you would be there.  I said yes.  When I heard her talking like that, I felt her health might be deteriorating.  I asked her if she could handle it, she said no problem.  Then I went to see her first show.  Till now, I still regret that I left after the first show, because on the following day I had to come back to work for my film, so I didn't stay to see the second show.  Before the show, I went to see her at back stage, but her assistant said that she was resting.  So I told the assistant not to tell her we were there.  We went back to the front to see the concert.  After the concert, we didn't go to the back stage, because too many people, she was surrounded by many friends, all talking to her.  I thought, I would leave then.  Actually even before I left the venue, Ah Mui was already calling me and asked me, have you come?  I said I did.  But she said she didn't see me:  I wanted to cheer her up by saying, you were on the stage posing this way and that way, how could you see where I was sitting.  She said not true, I reserved seats for you, I was looking for you all.  I told her might be the light was too dim.  She told me to come next day, because every show was different.  I said okay, but due to work on next day  I didn't see her again.  So the first show was the last time I saw her.  Later, I realized why Ah Mui wanted to have that concert, she was saying farewell to us, she was saying good bye to all those who love her, to all her friends and her family.  It was definitely a farewell party.

去香港參加葬禮

Went to Hong Kong to attend the funeral

後來去香港參加她的葬禮，送她最後一程，我一直送到火葬場，當時有很多媒體一直在給我打電話，問我怎麼看什麼之類的話，我從來不接受那種採訪，因為隔了段時間，現在我才會說這些事兒。如果你們那時候要給我採訪，我也不會說的，我覺得這（參加葬禮）跟宣傳沒有任何關係，完全因朋友與朋友之間的純正友誼。（胡軍自述）

I went to Hong Kong to attend her funeral, and walked with her during her last journey in this world.  I also went to the crematorium.  At that time, many media called me asking me how I thought, I never accepted this kind of interview.  Now, a period of time elapsed, I would talk about such things.  If you interviewed me at that time, I would not talk about it.  I feel there is no relation between this (attending a funeral) and promotion, it is completely for the pure friendship between friends.

就像他不願意拿自己和梅艷芳、張國榮的關係來做宣傳一樣，胡軍始終希望自己的演藝事業變得單純一點，拍戲回來有朋友一起喝酒，父母家人快樂健康，他就十分滿足。他甚少接拍廣告，卻又經常因為朋友關係客串演出電影，不刻意追求衣著打扮,  这些都使得他看上去不太像个艺人，而更贴近演员这个称号。

Just like he doesn't like to use his relationship with Anita Mui and Leslie Cheung for promotion and publicity, he hopes his own entertainment career would be simple.  After filming, he likes to have drinks with friends, he will be contented as long as his parents and family are happy and healthy.  He seldom works for advertisement, and often work for films due to friendship, not particular about his clothing, all these make him look more like an actor than artist.